Without a doubt, I used to be one of the most impatient people on the planet.

Denise Wallace with her daughter and mother
I’m serious; I really was. Just to give an example: If I had a dinner date with the president and got hungry on the way, I’d stop somewhere and grab a burger. It’s ridiculous, I know. And though I had the discipline to burn the extra calories, I was well aware that this was not a virtue, especially if I wanted to be a writer.

Denise Wallace is a powerlifting champion. Here she is training.
That’s why when I wanted to learn how to write a book, I went to UCLA film school first, which actually turned out to be great place to learn story. My dialogue got tighter and my visuals became more crisp, yet I was nowhere near the dangerous brink of querying literary agents before I was ready. After all, I had written a screenplay, not a novel. And while my end goal was to write a book about my father’s murder, I started out writing light-hearted comedy in the beginning. You see, the trick is to know yourself and work with what you’ve got, which, in my case, was the patience of an infant.
And once I’d written the first draft of my true crime book, I knew it wasn’t ready to be seen, but I still wanted someone to read it. Not an agent, of course, but someone who would know if I was on the right track. So I searched online and found an editing service that would let me set the price I was willing to pay for an
editor. Then I sat back and waited. A couple of days later, I received an email from an experienced editor, who had obviously been deeply insulted by the amount I’d offered as my budget. I really didn’t understand why he took the number so personally, as it was merely all I could afford at the moment; it had nothing at all to do with him. But the whole incident actually worked out in my favor.
The first thing that hinted to this fact was the length of the email itself. It was actually several paragraphs long. As I read on, I realized that the editor had decided to get me back for my low-budget offer that was clearly out of line, so he proceeded to point out SPECIFIC areas in my writing where I lacked knowledge of the craft. And he didn’t stop there. Just to drive home how off I’d been he even went on to provide examples. I was delighted to get the advice. With a little studying and application of what he’d shown me the craft of novel writing fell into place, and the feedback had cost me nothing! Never again did I feel the need to rush something before it was ready, or to interrupt someone while they were giving me advice. I’m happy to say that patience has finally become one of my virtues.



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